Wondering about your chances of getting pregnant?
Trying to conceive (TTC) can be an emotional journey. Whether you’re new to the process or already a few months in, it’s completely normal to have questions about your chances of conceiving each cycle. So, how long does it usually take? And what are your odds of getting pregnant each month?
In this article, we’ll break down the typical chances of pregnancy per cycle and what you can expect on average as you try to get pregnant.
The Likelihood of Getting Pregnant Each Cycle
If you’re having regular, unprotected sex during your fertile window, the odds of conceiving in any given cycle are usually around 20-25%. While it might feel like a game of chance, many factors impact these odds, including your age, overall health, and how regularly you ovulate.Here’s a quick breakdown based on age:
Under 35: Around 20–25% chance per cycle
35–39: Around 15–20% chance per cycle
40 and over: Around 5–10% chance per cycle
Factors that can influence these odds include:
Frequency and timing of sex (having sex during the fertile window is key)
Health habits (BMI, diet, smoking, alcohol consumption, and stress)
Sperm quality
Ovulation regularity (if cycles are irregular, it might be harder to predict the fertile window)
Health conditions, such as PCOS or endometriosis, can also affect fertility
On Average, How Long Does It Take?For most healthy couples, it typically takes around 6–12 months to conceive. Here’s a general guideline of what the journey looks like:
30% of couples conceive within the first 3 months of trying.
60% of couples conceive within 6 months.
80–85% will be pregnant within 12 months.
After 12 months, if you haven’t conceived, it’s usually recommended to visit a gynecologist or fertility specialist to discuss options.
What Happens If It Takes Longer?
In Germany, most couples will be advised to seek support after 12 months of unsuccessful trying (or 6 months if the woman is over 35). You may be referred to a Kinderwunschklinik (fertility clinic), where basic fertility assessments are offered. These assessments might include:
Hormonal blood tests
Sperm analysis
Ovulation tracking
You may also seek out alternative medicine practitioners, such as osteopaths or chiropractors.Check with your health insurance what fertility treatments are covered.
Patience Is Key
Trying to conceive can sometimes feel like a waiting game, and it’s easy to become frustrated. But keep in mind that the process is different for every couple. While some may conceive quickly, for others, it might take a little longer—and that’s okay. Remember, the most important thing is that you’re taking steps to support your health.
If it takes a little longer than expected, don’t get discouraged—there are plenty of resources available to support you on your TTC journey, both in Germany and beyond.
If you’ve been trying for a while and are feeling overwhelmed, seeking advice from a professional could be a helpful next step. Filter by "Trying" to find a professional to support you.
And last but not least: Stay informed, stay patient, and remember that you’re not alone in this journey.
Sources:
NHS– "Getting pregnant" NHS UK
Mayo Clinic– "Pregnancy: How long it takes to conceive" Mayo Clinic
American Pregnancy Association– "How long does it take to get pregnant?" American Pregnancy Association
Fertility Network UK– "Trying to Conceive: The Basics" Fertility Network UK
